As a foster parent, I have come into contact with children who have lived through some of the worst things they will ever have to go through. I have had several children who came from abusive homes. These children have been affected physically but the mental and emotional effects go deeper than any scar. A lot of times, these children do not know how to respond to their feelings so they act out physically. Other children are just the opposite and completely withdraw from the world. In both cases, counseling is a definite! Some children end up getting put on medication, removed from foster homes and put into group homes or even live in short term treatment facilities. Abuse is such a horrible thing especially when children are the ones who have to suffer.
Six months ago, I took in a 15 year old girl who had been abused from the time she was 6 years old until she was 10 years old. The physical abuse ended when she was finally removed from the home and placed in her first foster home. Unfortunately, she did not know who to deal with the feelings she felt as a result of the abuse. She was moved several times for behavior problems. By the time she was 13, she had been in more than ten homes and was finally put into a group home. After intense counseling and one on one therapy, she was moved from the group home and placed with me temporarily. She did well at first but quickly took a turn for the worse. She could not handle life on her own and needed to return to the group home where she could receive closer supervision and more one on one therapy. This young girl’s childhood was taken from her and now years later, she is still being affected by it. My hope and prayer for her is that she will learn how to value herself as a person and put the past behind her. I cannot imagine the fear, frustration, and pain she must be feeling. It breaks my heart.
Child development is affected by many different stressors. For children living in Africa, these stressors include HIV/AIDS, poverty, and lack of clean water. UNICEF is “ensuring children's survival and wellbeing through Prevention of Mother to Child Transmission of HIV, Neonatal Care & Support, Pediatric ART Care & Support and Safe Infant Feed & Nutrition Programs” (UNICEF, 2010). They are also ensuring children receive quality education through programs such as Safe and Child Friendly Schools, Early Childhood Development, Sport for Development and Adolescent Development Programs. In addition to these programs, UNICEF is working with the local government through the Social Transformation and Strategic Leveraging Program in order to “support the South African government in developing and strengthening policies, budgets and programs that improve the quality of life for children and women”.
UNICEF is not the only organization working to make a difference in Africa. There are other organizations such as the Council for the Development of Social Science Research in Africa and the Educational Development in Africa, Inc. who advocate for the people living in Africa to help get them to food, water, educational resources, and health services they desperately need.
Resources:
Council for the Development of Social Science Research in Africa. (2011). Children’s agencies and development in African societies. Retrieved from http://www.codesria.org/spip.php?article1250.
Educational Development in Africa, Inc. (2010). Retrieved from http://www.edinafrica.org/index.htm
UNICEF. (2010). Early childhood development. Retrieved from http://www.unicef.org/southafrica/early_childhood.html.